Wait for the perfect moment. No matter the reasons, there are so many ways to get it on without getting it in. Sexologist and author of Ride 'Em Cowgirl, Dr. Should should I do if the guy is more into having sex, but I'd like to just be intimate? Look at old photographs together. It taught me that when you're not ready for sex, speak to your partner about it. Listen fully when your partner speaks.
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Intimacy Without Intercourse
So why not incorporate it into your sex routine? Start with kissing and touching each other's legs and arms over clothing first. I find sometimes that if my partner is rubbing very gentle circles for a longer period of time, it can deliver surprisingly and especially intense orgasms. Intimacy is about closeness, about being together and about creating and maintaining a relationship. Not Helpful 10 Helpful While men can achieve orgasm through this method, it's also especially good for clitoral stimulation in women.